Why I Chose Greece over the UK: A Personal Journey
Recently, I received a question that resonates deeply with my experiences and values, prompting me to share my story in this blog post. My journey of relocating to Greece from the UK in 2010, right in the midst of the Greek financial crisis, has been transformative. It’s not just about the sunny weather, the rich culture, the delectable food, or even my Greek wife—it’s about a profound reason that changed my life: becoming a father.
The Decision to Move
When my daughter was born in the UK, the first thought that crossed my mind was to book tickets to Greece. This decision was instinctive, not driven by my wife but by my own resolve. As two foreigners living in London, my wife and I faced the crucial question of where to raise our child. The answer was clear to me: Greece.
Having visited Greece multiple times for holidays and our honeymoon, and having connected with my wife’s extended family, I felt a strong desire to offer my daughter a life steeped in the Greek familial warmth. The sense of community and belonging in Greece is something I wanted her to experience.
Raising Children in Greece
Parenting comes with universal challenges, such as bullying and cyberbullying, but the strength of the family unit in Greece offers a unique form of support. Greek society emphasizes a tight-knit family structure, providing a sense of security that I believe is crucial for children. My 14-year-old daughter, Fedra, benefits from this environment, where freedom and safety are intertwined.
Unlike in the UK, where societal structures differ, Greece offers a culture that is both child-centric and family-oriented. Despite reports labelling Greece as a depressive country, my experience has been the opposite. My childhood in Venezuela, a third-world country, was filled with happiness due to a strong family environment. Similarly, Greece’s cultural emphasis on family ensures a nurturing upbringing for children.
The Importance of Family
Films like “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” humorously but accurately depict the strong family bonds in Mediterranean cultures. Italians, Spaniards, Portuguese, and Greeks share a similar emphasis on family, making these societies particularly welcoming for raising children. Greece’s child-centric approach means that children are a top priority, contributing to a safe and open environment.
Growing Old in Greece
As much as Greece is ideal for raising children, it is also a comforting place for growing old. The elderly, or “papou and yiayia,” play a vital role in society, reflecting the respect and importance given to all generations. This intergenerational respect further solidifies the supportive community framework.
The Challenges and Rewards of Relocating
Moving from the UK to Greece with a newborn was no easy feat, especially when we were new to parenting. If you find yourself questioning the best environment for your children, I empathize with your dilemma. For me, the decision to move was clear even before experiencing parenthood in the UK. I simply couldn’t envision our life there with a baby, but I could see it vividly in Greece.
My decision was supported wholeheartedly by my in-laws, who were eager to have their first granddaughter close. This alignment of personal desires and family support made the transition smoother.
Conclusion
Parenting is undeniably challenging but incredibly fulfilling. My daughters, growing up in a multicultural home, speak different languages and benefit from the richness of Greek culture. I’ve met other families like a Dutch family recently relocated to Greece, who share similar values about community and family life.
Building a strong community begins at home. Moving a family to a new country is daunting but achievable. If you know what you want for your family, trust your instincts and make the leap. Your children’s future and your own satisfaction could greatly benefit from such a bold decision. Thank you for your continued support, and I hope this post inspires you to consider what’s best for your family’s happiness and well-being.
